Use SABIModule in non-CUDA CMake build of extension module

[matt-graham]

Should resolve #413

Request the Development.SABIModule component for non-CUDA branch of CMake build for extension module so that the built extension is a stable ABI build not a version specific one, consistent with the scitkit-build configuration in pyproject.toml which is what dictates the tags applied to the wheels. This was already happening for the CUDA branch but hadn't been propagated to non-CUDA branch.

We will need to make a new release after this is merged to have fixed wheel on PyPI.

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[matt-graham]

From manually downloading and extracting the built macos-latest wheels produces as an artifact on the CI build these do now appear to be creating correctly suffixed _s2fft.abi3.so extension modules

[matt-graham]

Merging this without review as this is only changing build config and build appears to be succeeding and I have confirmed after installing from a CI built wheel locally, I can successfully (outside of s2fft repository root...) run both import s2fft and from s2fft_lib import _s2fft.